Your wife is a smart and perceptive woman. Value her! I personally love MFM — it’s one of the best things I’ve ever encountered and I’ve written some erotica about it, in part because in real life it’s all about the woman as the center of attention. In porn, it’s more often about a woman doing shit for multiple men’s enjoyment. I agree that Lust Cinema has some of the best, actually erotic porn available. Pool Boy is my personal favorite. I get that porn is largely geared towards men but why isn’t it considered hot as shit to see a woman really truly enjoying herself? A lot of porn is really boring and sad.
I have long joked that that in my retirement I will take up porn production because it really wouldn’t be difficult to create better, more erotic porn than is widely available.