You don’t get to decide what my relationship parameters are. I’m surprised you don’t know that. The essence of polyamory is that each relationship is co-created by the people in it. There are no pre-set rules — that’s a large part of the point.

As I suspected, your comments are actually you attempting to work through your own past experiences by projecting them on to me. Sorry — it doesn’t actually work that way.

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