You Can’t Fill The Emotional Holes Inside of You With Someone Else

Believe me, I’ve tried

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One of those conventional wisdom tropes that makes some people really crazy is the one that says, “You can’t love anyone else until you love yourself.” For some people, those are pretty much fighting words. I’ve read several articles to that exact effect, with long tirades against the idea. What a load of…