Yes, yes, yes! 😉 There’s so much socialization around that promotes jealousy and possessivness. Meanwhile, no-one benefits more from a woman being fully sexually self-expressed than the main man in her life. I really enjoyed reading this story and it reminds me a lot of one that I wrote a while back, but just took down to be republished through MyErotica and it hasn’t come out yet.

My partner James finds it really hot to see me with another man, although he prefers to be there to watch it and not just imagine it. But, as Dan Savage so often points out, everybody has their kink and all of them are acceptable, as long as they are consensual.

Not sure if you read my Anatomy of a Three-Way or not but in it I tell about when I first told James about an 3-way I’d had in college that only lasted 2 minutes, but how I’d always thought that was hugely exciting and we continued to talk about what the details of that might be while we made love that night. The next day he told me that we should totally do that and we started figuring out how to make it happen. The rest, as they say, is history!

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