Yes to all of this — including your discovering that you were ready to go back to monogamy. I often say the same things about learning so much about myself through becoming polyamorous. I’ve learned a lot about who I really am and what I really want, about better communication, and so many things. I often say that I suppose someone could dismantle a lot of their programming without becoming polyamorous, but it certainly does make it easier if you are.

Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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