Yes, I feel the same and typically go with whatever I’m moved to in the moment. And some people think/feel that the convention is 1 and that’s OK too. I’m happy and grateful for whatever people want to offer, but it is fairly arbitrary, and I agree that new folks don’t necessarily know what the options are. I just find it amusing and somewhat whimsical how it all plays out.

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