Yes, exactly — because female sexuality has been for the enjoyment of men, not the woman. Be sexy, but not sexual unless in response to your man. Dismantling all of that has not only helped me enjoy my own sexuality more but it’s helped me heal in a lot of ways that I didn’t even know needed healing and to become a more whole person.

Best of luck on your own journey. 🐍

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