Yep, those are pretty much your two choices. Marriage counselors like the one who wrote this OP and researchers who study divorce all say the same thing. The fact that you don’t like it is irrelevant. You can complain about it but it won’t change the realities.

And you started the condescending tone. I was just answering in kind.

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