…xplicitly. I have written blog posts and participated in online conversations on various platforms. Over and over again, there is some man who thinks that my sex writing is an invitation to talk to me privately about sex in a subjective manner. They mistakenly believe that I am interested in their fantasies and/or want to sext with me. They believe that simply because they want to get to know me that surely I must want to get to know them or that I care that they want to know me.