Writing Prompt For Women: What Does The World Tell You About Who And How To Be?
Expanding on the Be A Lady They Said video
A major component of patriarchal society is entrenched genderized boxes — this is what makes a real man and this is what a real woman is like. Messaging like this isn’t just restrictive, it’s very often contradictory, making it all the more destructive and maddening.
“Don’t be too fat. Don’t be too thin. Eat up. Slim down. Stop eating so much. Don’t eat too fast. Order a salad. Don’t eat carbs. You need to lose weight. Go on a diet. God, you look like a skeleton. Why don’t you just eat? You look sick. Eat a burger. Men like women with some meat on their bones. Be light. Be little. Be petite. Be feminine.”
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Writing prompt: Tell us something about your own personal experience with messaging around how to be a woman — the things that have frustrated you, hurt you, made you mad or spurred you on to be more of your own person. Tag me in the story so that I can read what you have to say and link your story here.
One of the main ways that we can begin to dismantle this kind of controlling binary messaging is to recognize it and call it out. As they say, sunlight is the best disinfectant.
This prompt is for women, but here’s another one specifically for men and their stories.
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I’m leaving off dozens of women I’d love to hear from about this topic, I know, so even if you haven’t been tagged, please feel free to write something. Don’t forget to tag me.
Below are some of the responses to this prompt: