Women are very visual in general and more of them would be receptive to porn, I think, if it weren’t so largely terrible and boring from a female perspective. And that’s just the stuff that isn’t actively abusive and horrifying. Cindy Gallop, who started Make Love Not Porn has a lot to say about this. She is a “mature” woman who dates men in their 20s and she’s really seen good sex deteriorate as more and more men have a lot of their sex education come from porn. Much of it is dehumanizing and not at all enjoyable to women. She has no issue with sexually explicit material — just wants to counter some of the messaging about porn. So glad that you are guy who truly enjoys authentic female enjoyment — those kinds of guys are the best kinds!

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