Wishing you all the best as you navigate this. It is definitely true that monogamy hides a variety of issues that are best dealt with whatever relationship style you end up with. That was certainly the case for me and my husband of 20 years when we opened up as well. It can be a bumpy ride, but as you said, there’s also so much potential for individual growth and growth as a couple.


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