We were at a very strong and connected place when we decided to open up, and I'd definitely recommend that if people are going to change relationship styles mid-stream, because there are adjustments. James Finn has told me a little bit about this being more common in gay male relationships so I'll invite him to weigh in here about why he thinks that might be.

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