We have to crash the party, do the funky chicken, and tear this culturally-enthroned model apart until we snap out of it.

Love this phrase! And so agree with what you’ve said. I’ve written about it quite a bit, how non-monogomy can create possibilities for healthier relationships, better understanding your own needs, increased communication, etc. People can still choose monogamy but taking those cues from a poly world would help everyone.