Very good piece! It is interesting to me that kink spaces and sex clubs have a better grasp on consent than the world at large - which still tends to send the pervasive message that any admission that you have or like sex is an invitation to any and all, and that women exist for the pleasure and gratification of men. My profile disclaimer has helped, but it hasn't stemmed the tide completely because of the extensiveness of this messaging. If I had more characters I put "I am not your personal, free cam girl, here to get you off on your schedule and in the way that you choose." And, I also think that the best way to challenge this messaging is through stories like this, so great job!

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