Very good advice, as always. Opening up a relationship requires a deeper knowledge of your own boundaries and your own insecurities and noone else can work with those but you. We have some basic agreements, but as you’ve pointed out, a bunch of “rules” meant to legislate emotions are never going to do anything but cause more problems.

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