Trying to pretend like this isn’t a real dynamic is just specious. When men are tough, that is considered strong and correct and admirable. When women display those exact same qualities, they are considered bitchy and strident -even by other women.

  • Women who are assertive or forceful are perceived as 35% less competent than non-assertive women, according to a 2015 VitalSmarts study.
  • Women are called bossy in the workplace more often than men are, according to a US study.

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