Those are some hot pix, but also a really needed differentiation between bondage and abuse. I read an article the other day where the guy was talking about making the sub a dehumanized object. He even had a quote from a psychology magazine. He got a little correction from me about the extremely respectful and consensual aspect of real (and not imagined BDSM) and how the bottom actually has the most power. You explained this all really beautifully!