This phrase cracks me up: mystical pee! I didn’t become a squirter until my late 40s. Who knows exactly why, but some of it had to do with being more relaxed in my body and my sexuality, I think. It can be fun but can also cause a mess. If we find ourselves going down that road, we have to stop and lay down some towels. I don’t think of it as an achievement — it’s just another aspect of healthy sexuality and my partner really enjoys it, so it’s all good.

Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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