This is true — so much of what we think we want and don’t want is programming and upbringing. When you get the opportuntity to try new things, and keep an open mind, you find all kinds of new things you enjoy. I haven’t kept doing every thing I’ve ever tried (public sex, large group) but I wouldn’t have known they weren’t my thing if I had never tried. It’s good to explore and then keep your own boundaries.
Thanks for your response.