This is an extension of the cultural narrative that women exist in the world for the pleasure and enjoyment of men. That is their only function. They do not have any independent identity. Nope, nope, nope!
Chemistry is a real thing, and if you don’t have it with someone, you can’t pretend that you do. And why would a guy want to be with a woman who wasn’t really that into them? It makes no sense unless you want a trophy of some kind. 🙄