The same goes for women who have been married for a few years who think they are no longer that interested in sex. They just aren’t interested in the same ole, same ole sex they’ve been having and it kills their libido. Good sex, novel sex, that’s what keeps a woman’s engine revving.
“A couple live together, their libidos are matched, and they have a lot of sex. But after a year, two years, maybe three years, what tends to happen is that the woman’s desire drops more quickly than the man’s. At that point the woman thinks, ‘I don’t like sex any more.’ But what, in fact, is happening is that she is having a hard time with monogamy; because women get bored with one partner more quickly than men do.”