The rules are no different in a sex club than they are out in the actual world. It’s just that within the club, men know they will face swift and immediate repurcussions if they do not adhere to them. This is not the case in the outside, where men routinely cross those lines with no consequences at all.
This talk about betas is piffle……… It’s made up to try to justify the behavior above. There is no such thing. There are thousands of ways to be a good and decent man and trying to make rules around what that “should” be is harmful to both men and society at large.