That’s very possible Vienna, but it seems to me there would be a more straightforward way to say that if it were truly the full intention. I know it’s traditional and also that I’ve had to work hard at my own individuation while still being fully committed to my relationships.

And oh, to have a triad under one roof…. it wouldn’t come without it’s own issues, but I haven’t seen Nat in person in a long time and miss him dearly. Unfortunately, he lives in another state and it wasn’t practical for him to move when we did. He has his own primary partner as well. Anyway, thanks for your comment. I always appreciate hearing your input.