That’s because in porn, the comfort of the actress isn’t taken into consideration. Jenna Jamison and many others have written about the sometimes brutal conditions that they have endured. That’s a pretty different thing than having a mutually gratifying sexual encounter with two men who care about and respect you, and who are letting you drive the whole experience. I laughed to a friend later that day that I’d been having sex with two men for four hours and what was sore was my shoulders and one of my thumbs.

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