Thanks for the mention and glad that you are asking yourself these questions while still giving yourself a lot of leeway to act or not on your own timetable. I truly believe that who we actually are as a sexual being is completely overlaid with cultural narratives, religious indoctrination, and other detritus that has to be pulled back in order to find what we actually want for ourselves. Sometimes a fantasy is just that; and sometimes its an indication of a real interest in trying something new.

I have always liked women only porn, but for me it’s mostly because they are more likely to convey that they are actually enjoying each other, and that’s hot. Watching a guy who looks and acts like he’s doing the woman a favor with his weird looking oversized dick while she makes absurd noises does not turn me on.

Here’s my further take on sexual fluidity and the joys of kissing women.

Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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