Thanks and thanks for sharing your experience. Perhaps you should look for a swinger’s lifestyle club instead. Bi-sexuality is common and embraced and the atmosphere is generally a lot more fun and open than what you described. If you read the Kissing Women piece, I talk some about how that’s where I really learned that I’m truly attracted to women as well. But yes, part of what was fun about the night I described is that it was entirely organic and very unexpected.