Thank you for saying so and yes -it’s all pretty much a synthesis of these elements, including in this piece, which was largely about my personal conversation with a black-pilled guy, in which I recounted to him a bunch of my personal experiences. Then I used my intellect to formulate a theory based on my observations and what I know about certain sociological dynamics.

And talking about my sex life as much as I do is both a political act of defiance in a society that still judges and controls female sexuality as well as a method for healing the wounds that have been inflicted on me by that society. If someone wants to further judge or marginalize that, and refuse to understand that, that’s their problem.

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