Thank you and I apologized as well if I was overly combative. I'm very sorry to hear about your father and hope that all continues to go well for your wife. Stress + trying to interpret what people intend via written word only, without benefit of facial expressions or other context can lead to misunderstandings.

Let's start again, shall we?

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