Sweetie, I’ve been having casual sex for longer than you’ve been alive and I don’t need a lecture about allowing people to express themselves sexually. It’s one of the things that I write about on a weekly basis, often based on my own experiences.

I’m stating my opinion here about me and how I respond to people who believe that their magic penis is the most important thing about them as a lover. If you think that’s the most important thing about a man, have at it, but if so, you’re really missing out on actual good sex and based on the other responses I’ve gotten, from both men and women, you’re also in the minority.

Also, championing dick picks is a weird cause. Just saying….

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