Sweetie, I like you a lot about you are deeply invested in your own wounds, so much so that despite your best intents, your judgement is pretty clouded. As I said above, calling out bad behavior is not in and of itself bad behavior.

What you are saying is about on par with White people asking people of color to consider whether or not they are engaging in reverse racism. Could it happen? Sure — but the sheer volume of possible substantive and appropriate reasons for outrage probably vastly outweigh that being likely.

You are always welcome to include your opinion about a topic that I’ve brought up — that’s what these comment sections are for.

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