Paul, my husband and I have developed a remarkable love relationship with an escort over the past two years and it’s given me a lot of insight into the industry. Obviously, I can’t speak for any particular person, but I do know that lots of clients hire escorts primarily to talk or cuddle and that most escorts are not in the least judgemental — they want to help the client have a pleasurable experience, whatever that means for them as long as it fits within their boundaries and parameters.

I’m linking an article here that I wrote about how to hire an escort. I hope that this will give you some insight into the process should you choose to go in that direction. Best of luck,


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