None of this surprises me, despite the deep programming around monogamy. I have to say, 3 is a very fun number, either with another man or another woman and my husband agrees. Much more than that and you lose connectivity but 4 can work too.

I also agree that more people would realize porn is for entertainment and not how to actually have good sex if there were better education.

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