No, this just shows the way that patriarchy harms men too, by keeping them tightly reined in around what masculinity looks and sounds like. Women do help to uphold these patriarchal norms as well, but the “man box” was designed by men to keep other men playing this stupid game where people can’t just be who they are and instead have to think about whether the word they are using is too “girly.”

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