No, that isn’t what I said, and it’s entirely non-sensical that you would highlight me saying that there are plenty of good guys in the world and that they are usually the ones actually doing their own inner work and extrapolate from that only bad boys are honest. Are you implying that men who do inner work to reflect upon themselves are dishonest in some way?

My husband is a genuinely nice and kind human being and so is my other partner Nat. I wouldn’t be with them if they weren’t. I know plenty of men who are actually nice people. As I said before, there’s a difference between someone who is real and someone who is acting like a “nice guy” to get something.

You seem to be doing all kind of mental gymnastics around this topic.

“I’ve asked you somewhere else what would be in the feminist social contact?”

You are the one who has taken women’s studies courses and been a member of NOW. You tell me!

Definition of feminism

1: the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes

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