MFM is a favorite of mine, in part because it disrupts old notions about power dynamics in sex. Plus, there's all those extra hands and mouths, to say nothing of a "ski pole" for each hand. James likes to only half-jokingly call it "goddess worship" because although it's for the pleasure of everyone present, the woman really is the lead in many ways.

So much fun! Enjoy...

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