Men are so steeped in a world full of dominance hierarchy that it’s not surprising they are more worried about that than most women are. In fact, when we used to be on a lifestyle website I would routinely screen out any man who used a dick pic for his profile image. My theory being if you think that’s the most important thing about you as a lover, you obviously don’t know that much about pleasing a woman. Big is nice, but it’s just not the most important thing to most women.

And as James likes to say, “There are no bad breasts.” It’s a good thing I think to see more and more actresses, porn stars, sex workers and regular women just being satisfied with whatever nature endowed them with. Personally, I’m attracted to nicely shaped breasts, but I don’t really care about the size of them.

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