"Men are so self centered they tend to believe a woman is interested in them simply because they are interested in her." There have actually been studies done that verify this. It's the Aziz Ansari dynamic. I'm into her (and since she only exists in the world for my pleasure) she must be into me as well. When men are taught how to actually focus on and read her body language and other cues, this dynamic mostly dissipates -which indicates that it’s a learned behavior that comes out of a patriarchal culture.

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