James and I are to the point where we would never date or even just have sex with someone who hasn’t done that before. There are too many differences and pitfalls if someone comes from a monogamy perspective. We don’t want to be the place where they discover this really isn’t for them after all.

Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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