It’s true that we’ve both done a considerable amount of work and it is absolutely a part of a spiritual path. The notion to even open up our marriage in the first place, after 20 years of monogamy, was because I felt what I can only describe as a spiritual call to do so. It turned out that we were looking for a particular man, whom we did eventually find. This man is my twin flame (as I later discovered) and so it was not so much that I fell in love with him but that when we met in this life, we each remet someone that we had always been in love with. James was willing to share me physically at that point, but me loving another man was not as easy. It was a trial by fire for all 3 of us, but we all came out of it better people.

I talk about them both in the Blonde One/Dark One erotica, but so far haven’t gone into the whole twin flame thing or the crucible that we went through. I will at some point I’m sure, but it’s still very special and to some extent sacred, so I’ll have to wait until it feels like the right time.

I am touched and honored that you find it inspiring and I look forward to further discussions.

Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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