It's hard to play by other people's rules, although it takes a lot of introspection and intention to create your own together. It took me a long time to realize that's what I and we were doing - playing by rules other people had designed that we had just adopted because "that's just how it's done." Beginning to question that was scary but also very liberating. I wish you all the best as you go forward in whatever way you decide for yourself.

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