In many cases, multiple opinions are all valid. In this case, no! There is no valid opinion that believes that sexual harassment is not incredibly psychologically and physiologically harmful, even if the person was never touched. Not because I say so, but because science and experts say so. There is no science or experts who say differently.
And continuing to “explain” women’s lived experiences to them is the dictionary definition of mansplaining. You want to be a good guy on this topic, I suspect, but you are too busy pontificating about things that you don’t understand very well and then attacking those who are trying to educate you. It’s not a good look — at all.