I’m not crazy about labels. Bi-sexual is technically correct, but never resonated for me. Pan-sexual is probably accurate but I’ve never had the opportunity to really see if there are trans or other non-binary people that I’m attracted to. I know a few, but just because I’m not sexually attracted to them does that mean I’d never be sexually attracted to someone who is? I don’t know — not enough data. As with you, it’s important to me to have some kind of bond or connection. Maybe time will tell, but in the meantime I just kind of don’t worry about labels. I liked this piece a lot!

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