If you really want to impress a woman, stop trying to tell her about how impressive you are and ask her to explain something to you — her work, her favorite book, how to put together an Ikea shelf….. It shows that you are secure in yourself (and that’s impressive in itself). It also shows that you see her as a whole person who is impressive in her own way.

Dispelling cultural myths with research-driven stories. My favorite word is “specious.” Not fragile like a flower; fragile like a bomb! Twitter @ElleBeau

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