I used to joke that I was going to start producing porn in my retirement, simply because there’s so much out there that’s bad (unerotic) that it seemed like it wouldn’t take much to improve upon it. Instead, I’ve started writing erotica right now, but we do occasionally still watch porn.

My main criteria is the woman has to look like she’s actually enjoying it and not that the guy is doing her a favor by showing up with his freakishly big cock. I want to see a kind of celebration of people enjoying each other sexually — a depiction of a sexual relationship, not a sexual transaction. That doesn’t seem like it should be a tall order, but apparently it is, although it’s starting to get a little bit better.

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