I too have a naturally anxious attachment style and have found that polyamory has helped me to be less clingy and over-thinking. I’ve learned to trust in new ways. My nesting partner loves me in the way that I’m most used to and comfortable with but my other partner doesn’t. It’s been really good for me to learn to allow him to love me in the way that feels best to him and not demand that he love me in the way that feels best to me.

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