“I think it’s fine to have physical preferences in a partner, but I don’t believe the things we’re attracted to are static either. Sometimes meeting someone and liking them a lot can change what you’re physically attracted to.” Yes, I concur with this entirely!

I didn’t wear high heels for a long, long time, but then as I got older and more self-confident I started to do so now and then (they aren’t particularly comfortable, so mostly I don’t wear them for that reason now). Even though my husband is tall, I’m usually taller than him in heels, and that’s fine with him, and with me.

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