I sometimes disagree with what people write, but it’s because they’ve said something factually incorrect (e.g., patriarchy is a competence based system) or I have a different perspective that I can support in some way, which still honors their right to their perspective. But in general I am not hate reading other people’s blogs for the purposes of telling them off. And I most certainly never tell someone who is hurting that they are over-reacting or need to suck it up or what have you. Those are the ones that really push my buttons!