I highly recommend it! Different clubs have different flavors, but this level of civility and openeness is a common thread. Most cities have something along these lines. Might be called a couples club or a swingers club, but women are always welcome in such places and as I said, it’s really not even so much about actual sex and hooking up as it is about being getting to be your sexual self openly. We haven’t been for a while. Might be time to again!