I have never had an orgasm with a partner that I didn’t know very well and thoroughly trust. It doesn’t matter how good their technique is; where my head is at makes all the difference. I had a guy break it off with me because I never came with him. I think it bruised his ego. He didn’t say that was the reason, but after I came with a vibrator, he never seemed to want to get together again. Just as well……

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